DO YOU WEAR A MASK? WHY? Here's another opinion, mine...

Why do you wear a mask?  How do you feel about it?  It seems like there are so many conflicting "facts."

I recommend completely reading this article: https://aapsonline.org/mask-facts/ It is very scientific with lots of facts. Yet, despite the “facts” that a mask may not "protect" me, I wear a mask when I go inside places, why? To remind me not to touch my face.  I don't worry about layers or filters, just in the comfort of the masks that I make. 

Also in the, "Final Thoughts" section it says things that are not often stressed:
“The wearer does not have glasses on and the eyes are a portal of entry…” So implies that wearing glasses or a face shield offers another layer of protection.

 Here is what I consider very important information in the article: "Public health authorities define a significant exposure to Covid-19 as face-to-face contact within 6 feet with a patient with symptomatic Covid-19 that is sustained for at least a few minutes (and some say more than 10 minutes or even 30 minutes). The chance of catching Covid-19 from a passing interaction in a public space is therefore minimal.”  I wish I could underline "symptomatic" because this implies that the infected person has to be sneezing or coughing or talking in your face. 

     

Also, “If you are walking alone, no mask – avoid folks – that is common sense..."This article also lists surfaces where the virus is present "in a hospital".   But does not say anything about getting it other ways like from shaking hands with an infected person (who could be asymptomatic) then touching your own mouth, nose or eyes.

Finally,  the article lists recommendations for preventing the spread of the "flu”: to "cover your nose and mouth when coughing or sneezing, and use tissues to contain respiratory secretions and, after use, to dispose of them in the nearest waste receptacle"  Doesn't it then make sense that wearing a mask - if you sneeze or cough in public (heaven forbid!) will help as much as using a tissue??? 

Your opinion?  I wish everyone would wear a mask in stores.  Just in case you sneeze or cough, that is.

"Jesus Loves me," Just me?

After singing "Jesus loves me" before bed with my 5 year old granddaughter, she says, just me?  I say,  what?  She says,  "just me?  Does Jesus love just me?"  I say, "you mean, does Jesus love only you?"  I look at her scrambling for how to respond in the moment, and say,  " Yes, Jesus loves especially you and God also loves especially me and mommy and daddy and even your unicorn right here!"  Then she giggles and suddenly turns goes to sleep.

Wow! That was so cute, and also such an important moment...  Did I miss an opportunity?  Should I have said something about Jesus loving her so much that he died for her?   No, how thrilling for her to accept Jesus' love for her, purely and unconditionally?

I'm going to believe that she did that, by the smile on her face and her acceptance of that simple fact, Jesus is real.  God loves her without question or analysis like her not much older cousin who is already coming up with questions like, I thought Jesus is God? How can He be the son of God?

But that is another story!

Hints for your visit to Cuba

Some thoughts for Americans who want to visit to Cuba.

My cousin has gone to Cuba many times and taken other family with her.  When she goes, it is to educate, and to take things to help the Cuban people through the Church.  She is willing to share her tips with you.

She has contacts there for visitors and will share them with you if you ask.

Here are some points of advice that I prepared for a group from my home town who went through a Rhodes Scholar program. https://www.roadscholar.org/n/program/dailySchedule.aspx?dID=1-79UT97

What my cousin said about talking with the people: "the people carry the police inside themselves. They have no basis for comparison because they don't know what they don't know. They talk with authority about things they don't know.” (no world news, no internet)

The government choses the people to whom you will talk with and interview - brainwashing

When you talk with Cubanos, will you hear the Cuban's point of view or government point of view?

Be careful with your money not to have it stolen.

Bring plenty of loose dollar bills for tips. 

Don't believe everything you hear.  

Try to escape their watchful eyes and see and talk to people on their own. Where no one can overhear you.

Don’t do anything you are told not to do, be careful with exploring on your own…

Don’t know Spanish?  How do you know that what the translators say is what the Cubans are saying? Make friend with someone who speaks Spanish to find out more.

Things to take for the people:   Earrings and any custom jewelry, medicines, guitar strings, tights and leotards, leave your clothes there...
Take for yourself: wipes, little soap and little towel. (lacking in Cuba)

Questions to ask:

Paladares (independent restaurants) owners- how much do you pay to the Cuban government? How much do the employees make? Can they get what they need for their business? Vendors - do you keep all your earnings? Where do you get your materials?
About US/Cuba relations... What do they think are obstacles to US/Cuba relations? End embargo?  What does that mean to them? Benefits do they see?  how will your life change? What is your greatest  need?  What do you want for your children? For the future of Cuba? What is your greatest happiness? What do you miss? (for the seniors) How do you feel about the Cubans who left Cuba coming back?  What change do you want first?  What do you want to stay the same?

2018 resolutions... same every year!!

Why do our resolutions seem the same every year?  To me it's not that I break them but that I'm not there yet.  So, I write the same things but put them at the end and write some new ones first.

This year I first made a list of the things that gave me joy in 2017 and there were many that I did on purpose.
Then I thought I should make a list of the things that let me down or made me negative but NO!  those times I offered up and prayed.  Those things just ARE... no control... can't dwell on them.
They are times of not being able to "do" anything to make it better.  But knowing God with me and in me and God with him and in him (Don) to give strength and comfort.

Choose a word - NURTURE
be kind
be help
be positive
be accepting
be inspiring
be giving
be loving
be present

Relaxing, healthy, happy

Shake off the negativism around me

Focus again on doing - new things for my Swimming

46 Years Married - So I wrote a poem!

 We got married September 4, 1971

YOU NEVER DID THAT BEFORE!

Our love is ever new.

Even after years with you,

There is always more to discover

And so much more joy

To give one another.

What can I do

To make our love grow?

It’s in the giving

That love really shows.

To feel so uncertain

And yet take the risk…

To be understood and needed

Is my only wish.

The comings and goings

In every direction

Hugging and kissing…

More I can’t mention.

We listen and wait

To share with each other

We put aside our busy-ness…

You’re never a bother.

Accepting the moods

Of silence and caring,

We try to make better

Each frustration together.

When you tell me your problem,

You allow me to be

Your healing and soothing, 

 A mystery to me.

When we feel all stressed out

And just want to scream

We take off together

Refreshing our dreams.

I want you to be happy

In each daily chore

And to feel so fulfilled

That you’ll want to do more.

When I wake up happy,

You don’t give me a frown.

When I share my schemes,

You don’t put me down.

You open my Spirit;

You stir up the Power;

God’s Love we can be…

Everywhere, every hour.

Thank You, God, Thank You

That we have each other.

Thank You for making us

To love one another.

Mami Is Gone to Heaven

My mami gave up the fight

We were at the same time glad and sad.
I miss her each and every day
wanting to share with her my joys and my cares.

 Liquidating her estate was not easy to do
Florida laws have so many rules and paperwork to follow through
There are six of us sisters who had to sign all the papers
The house had to sell and we split her many memories

The memorial service was a solace for all
Remembering her joy of life and family love

Many people came to show us they care 

They wanted to hug and kiss and share

Months later we came together again

Her ashes to the ocean with praises acclaim

A spiritual experience to remember her by

Her ashes to Cuba under the sky.

We cried and we loved 

each other better to be 

our Mom and Dad together

In heaven we'll see.

    OBITUARY OF MARIA LUISA S. GASTON

María Luisa Sánchez Gastón, passed away peacefully to New Life in God on June 27^th, 2016 at her home in North Lauderdale, Florida. We celebrate her 93 years of a life full of love and joy.

Born in Havana, Cuba, on December 5^th 1922, she was the daughter of Bernabé Sánchez Culmell of Camaguey, Cuba, a cattle rancher and Senator for the Republic, and Ana María Maciá Barraqué, well respected in Cuban society, who raised Maria Luisa and her 3 brothers. Maria Luisa married Melchor Gastón Segrera, manager of El Dolores sugar mill in Matanzas, Cuba, and with him raised 6 daughters, living in Havana, and during the milling months in the Sugar Mill, where she worked in church and in the clinic to care for the workers’ families. 

They left Cuba in 1960, and after 3 years in Miami settled in Milwaukee, where she lived committed to her family and to her church. In 1980 Melchor retired and they moved to North Lauderdale, Florida. In 1986 she lost her beloved husband Melchor with whom she had shared 44 years of married life. Maria Luisa became an active volunteer with the Senior Club, the Friends of the Library and at her parish, where she took communion to the sick and worked faithfully every Saturday at the Thrift Shop. She loved painting, gardening, and collecting shells, and was skilled at many arts and crafts, which she shared with daughters and grandchildren. Dancing and playing dominoes were other fun activities she enjoyed with family and friends.

  

In addition to her husband, she is preceded in death by her brothers Bernabé Sánchez Maciá (2011) and Fernando Sánchez Maciá (2016). She is survived by her youngest brother Federico Sánchez Maciá and Marta Baró, and by Raquel Hevia and Ana María (Anuka) Gamba, widows of brothers Bernabé and Fernando respectively. 

She is also survived by her six daughters: Ana María McKee, Cristina (Juan) Sollosso, María Luisa Gastón, Beatriz (Don) Skeens, Margarita (Kevin) Jenson, and Maria Teresa (John) Gastón-Witchger; her 15 grandchildren: Cristi-Mari, Brian, Alicia, Helen, Mel, Beth, Julia, Felipe, Angela, Kevin, Martín, Faith, Joshua, Luke, Abraham; and 25 great-grandchildren; many cousins, nieces and nephews, and loving friends. 

A Memorial Mass to celebrate her life will be held on Saturday July 16^th, at 11:30 am at Our Lady Queen of Heaven Catholic Church, 1400 South State Road 7 (also called Route 441), North Lauderdale, Florida 33068. The Mass will be followed by a reception in the Parish Hall. We will share pictures, display some of her paintings and tell stories of her wonderful life. All are welcome.

Special thanks are due to friends of the Senior Center, staff of the Adult Day Care and of Catholic Hospice at home, and her helpful neighbors and home care aides (Karen, Sharon, Carmen, Lis, Maria del Carmen, María and Gladys) whose excellent help enabled us to keep Mom at home, as was her fervent wish, and together with her family, accompanied Mom in these last months of her life.

In lieu of flowers, you may wish to make a donation to honor her memory: Las Esclavas in Caibarién, Cuba, or the Families of Gaston’s “Dolores Sugar Mill”, or Caritas Cuba - Holguin. Please write the check to Maria Luisa Gaston, and in the “Memo” line, write your donation choice. We will collect and use appropriate channels to get the money to the right place. Address for donations: Maria Luisa Gaston, 7411 S.W. 11^th Court, North Lauderdale, Florida, 33068. 

Sanchez family Ancestry - by Maria Luisa Gaston y Sanchez

This page is dedicated to our Sanchez Family Reunion 2017 at the Beachcomber Resort and Villas.  The facebook page has pictures and family information.

Facebook page Sanchez Family Reunion 2017

This is the new  Sanchez Ancestry - written by Maria Luisa Gaston y Sanchez

The names and addresses of the family will be emailed individually to those that request it.